Monday, May 2, 2011

Not Perfect and Wont Pretend that I am

I would love to share somethings about my self ----

Here is my life: I am a mom to three children, they are no wheres near perfect .. sorry but I am only being honest. My kids are kids .. they can drive me up a damn wall at times, but they can be sweet and well behaved as well. Who are you kidding when you make it sound as if your kids don't do a thing wrong .. HA . if that is the case .. I would worry that they DON'T do anything wrong ... LOL .. though please do not get me wrong I want you all to  know I LOVE MY CHILDREN WITH ALL MY HEART .. THEY ARE MY WORLD !!!
I have been in some shitty relationships.. Had my oldest at 18 .. while in high school, though on a positive note .. I did graduate! But the stupidity of having a baby lead me down a path of destruction in my life ... continued to stay in a relationship filled with negativity.. Then I got away from it .. was doing pretty damn good for a year .. till I got my self all caught up again in another shitty relationship (thinking of course it was perfect at first)..... got pregnant 9 month's later then married a year later ... all went even FURTHER down hill from there... married an alcholic ( was born to one as well .. My father ) and who never knew how to pay bills or manage money .. so we were ALWAYS evicted from our homes.. I was married 8 1/2 years and moved 8 times.. SERIOUSLY .. I also brought another child into my mix .. so now I found my self with three kids ages 15, 8 and 7 when I came back home to live with my mom after my WONDERFUL ( HA !!! ) ex- cheated on me and moved on with his life ( FINE BY ME NOW ) ( OK enough about that dramatic life style ) though I have come a LOOOONG Way from 2008 -- NOW .. I have to be honest and say I am in one of the BEST relationships I have ever been in with a supportive boyfriend ( I believe we all can have a supportive man .. ) who I plane to marry when the time is right ..... I have been with him for two years and we meet at the ambulance where we both volunteer .. him as a Paramedic and me as an EMT. He is a very sweet guy and who ever knows Amit, knows he is there for everyone.




Jordan is 17 -- graduating from High school this June .. god I can not believe it!!! She can drive me CRAZY ... But can be a good girl as well .. she has good grades, but at the same time is a teenager! She is on her way to college this September. She has very selective friends (though popular in school ) and is President of SADD ( Students Against Drunk Driving )I am very proud of her and the young lady she has become.

Nicholas is 12 -- God what a boy he is !! LOL !! He can be moody, aggravating and get frustrated very easy .. guess it's not easy to live with three girls .. ( we can tend to be bitchy at times ) he LOVES video games, and computers. He has selective friends out side of school but seems to be well known / popular in school. He can be very good to his sisters and loves his mommy!! ( Lol ) He is very good in school as well .. and loves history! 

Jenna is 10 --- Oh My God .. Jenna !! She is one little crazy girl .. who can drive me up a wall ( I am only being honest ) she can be a good girl when she wants to be. Though she is also like her father ... stubborn and likes to annoy people ... though she too can be good to her siblings as well as a very sweet and loving little girl. She is well behaved in school & at her friends house, but tends to pick just about any friend who is willing to be friends with her and that causes lot's of drama between girls. She too is a smart little girl ... 

See my life is by far perfect and I can never pretend that it is .. at least not all the time. Sure I guess I can say my life is wonderful from time to time.. but I sure can not sit here type out my life and make it sound like its perfect ... because it's not! We all make mistakes and if "you" pretend that you don't .. well then all the more luck to you ! But we Love Each Other and It's OUR World ;)




16 comments:

ruggierijake said...

Atta girl. I know I gave birth to a half dozen little Damien's myself. The only ones of us who were close to perfect are dead and Sainted. You keep your chin up mama!

Kirsten said...

LOL Thank You very much ;) You just made me smile .. You are awesome!!

Lexie Lane said...

Awww... You've got beautiful children! It's funny how our past bad relationships can help us grow stronger and wiser. And sometimes because we've been exposed to it, we figure out how to keep ourselves distant from ever having it happen again, leading us into our "comfort future."

Thanks for sharing Kirsten.

Have a great night!

Lexie

Kirsten said...

Thank you Lexie :)
and I agree with you !

Are You A Mom said...

Beautiful Kids! Following you from the hop...please stop by www.Areyouamom.com and say hi
Thanks,
Maureen

pamela r said...

Wonderful post---great to get to know you. Your 10 year old sounds so much like my daughter....

SortaSuperMom said...

Your kiddos are adorable and you are beautiful and a very strong woman. Your son, btw, sounds just like my oldest in many ways. I look forward to following you and reading more!

S. Greiner said...

Great post! I'm following you now via the year long blog hop!

Feel free to check out my blog at www.alwaysjustamom.blogspot.com!

Have a great week!

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